June, 2010

 

Barbara Morris: Have a Facelift to Get or Keep a Job?

A recent article by Penelope Trunk, "Why Your Career Needs Plastic Surgery-Literally" created a firestorm of mostly negative comments. The gist of her article is that if you want to get ahead in the business world, you have to look good. That means, possibly having cosmetic surgery, fixing your teeth, and being in shape.

Many women satisfied with how they look didn't like Ms. Trunk's advice. Most were adamant that their ordinary appearance did not hinder their success. But then, how could they know for sure? Perhaps an above average appearance would have paid off in even greater success.

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Mary Lloyd: Your 3-Second Face Lift

Announcing a no-cost, non-surgical way to look younger!!!

Smile.

We spend a lot of time, money, and effort trying to "make the most of what we've got" but there really is a lot of truth to the suggestion that inner beauty improves your looks far more effectively. And inner beauty is totally a matter of personal choices rather than medical advances.

We tend to believe that the things we want most are going to cost us. Beauty (or "handsomeness" if you prefer) is one of those things. But beauty is more about what you're thinking than which face cream you are using. Or how many cosmetic surgery procedures you can afford.


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Henry Montag:
 
What is 'The Preferred Method of Care'?

As a Certified Financial Planner concentrating in the elder care market, I've long advocated that  parents should be actively involved in the process of choosing  a preferred method of care--if, and when, it became necessary for them to  move into an assisted living facility or nursing home.

Indeed, I've received heartwarming  phone calls from parents and children alike who thanked me for getting the entire family involved in choosing caregivers and initiating a Family Meeting, years before they were actually needed.

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Joyce Shafer: Do You Rub Your Thoughts the Wrong Way?

There is a phrase, "That person rubs me the wrong way," that basically means the person (though it also could be a situation) doesn't make you feel good. You, at times, do this with your thoughts (most of us do); so what works to shift this?

Esther Hicks of Abraham fame has a video on YouTube, "Now Is Where All Your Power Is, Part 2," where she likens feeding negative thoughts-any thoughts that take you out of feeling good-with rubbing your hand on sandpaper. You wouldn't rub your hand on sandpaper for an extended period of time because it would hurt, remove skin, require healing, maybe lead to infection, and so on.

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Lura Zerick: Yes, I Shop at Victoria's Secret!

I didn't understand it. When I mentioned to a friend that I planned to go to Victoria's Secret the next day, she put her coffee cup down abruptly and stared at me as if I had just landed from another planet. I was explaining why we couldn't meet for lunch. As I reviewed our conversation, I realized the cause of her reaction.


She probably thinks that Victoria's Secret is for 20-yeqr-olds.Wrong! Don't they have beautiful, lacy things in there for females? Okay! I'm a female; I can go in if I want! (I decided not to tell her that I go in there often.)

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Jane Galbraith: 5 Tips You CAN Use to Help the Grieving

Who hasn't heard or said themselves "I just don't know what to say." Or "I feel so helpless - there's nothing I can do!!" Well there ARE things that you can do or say to help those in pain due to the death of a loved one. We can help, and not just in little ways, and it makes a tremendous difference to those we see in pain.

Here are a few points to consider when you are trying to help someone who is grieving:

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Vikki Stark: Epidemic: The Number of Husbands Fleeing "Happy" Marriages

A study of over 400 women worldwide, who were left out-of-the-blue from what they believed to be happy marriages, led to the discovery of Wife Abandonment Syndrome.

Imagine that you're a happily married woman in the midst of a stable and secure long-term marriage. Now imagine that you come home one day and find a scribbled note from your husband in the middle of the kitchen table with two words on it - "It's over."

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Links: For June

Lots of good stuff: Exercise Can Forestall Osteoporosis; Breast Cancer Metastasis Increases After Estrogen and Progestin Hormone Therapies; How Dark Chocolate May Guard Against Brain Injury from Stroke; Male Obesity Linked to Low Testosterone Levels; Low Vitamin D Levels Are Related to MS Brain Atrophy, Cognitive Function; Health Care Bill Challenged in Ohio Court; Changing Thoughts Key to Battling Even Severe Depression; Sponsoring by the Pharmaceutical Industry Can Bias the Results of Drug Studies; Abdominal Fat at Middle Age Associated With Greater Risk of Dementia: Obesity Linked to Lower Total Brain Volume; Suicide Risk for Seniors Moving Into Residential Homes

And much more . . .
 
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Controversy: What Do You Think?


 

 
About Your Editor

Hi, I'm Barbara Morris. My subscribers know who I am but if you just stumbled across the newsletter,
I'm the resident pharmacist, opinionated ageless diva and knower of all things dealing with aging. I'm Putting Old on Hold and if you stick with me, I'll help you do it too!

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This newsletter is intended to help mid-life and younger women understand that they have the power to manage their aging process. Even with unforeseen life events, women can determine 70 percent of the state of their mental and physical condition 25 or more years into the future. It's all about developing a vision, and having the will to plan and prepare. This newsletter is also intended to inspire women of every age, to motivate and provide tools to aid the worthy quest of healthy agelessness.


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No More Little Old Ladies!
by Barbara Morris

Baby Boomers Face Grief: Survival and Recovery
by Jane Galbraith

Supercharged Retirement: Ditch the Rocking Chair, Trash the Remote, and Do What You Love
by Mary Lloyd

Planning Tools for Bold Retirement Workbook
 by Mary Lloyd

Reinvent Yourself
by Joyce Shafer

You Are More (New)
by Joyce Shafer
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River Villa
by Lura Zerick

 

Runaway Husbands: The Abandoned Wife's Guide to Recovery and Renewal
by Vikki Stark

 

 

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